Keeping the flame alive on Imbolc

Terena Scott
January 29, 2024

image from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imbolc

On the Winter Solstice, I wrote “Survival Mode” on a piece of paper and burned it in the flames of a large, white candle to symbolize my intention to let go of fear and open my life to more joy. On Imbolc, I reaffirm my commitment to staying present to the joy in my life, both the large and the small moments. I also rekindle the fire of my creativity. I open myself to passion and hope while following the path leading to greater happiness.

Imbolc is an ancient Celtic celebration marking the beginning of Spring by honoring Brigid, the Goddess of fertility and light. Today, Imbolc is more commonly known as St. Brigid’s Day in honor of the first Christian nun in Ireland. Both St. Brigid and the Goddess Brigid are celebrated with milk and fire on February 1st. Milk symbolizes fertility, especially the fertility of the animals people depend on to survive. Fire symbolizes the warmth and light of the sun.

It has been five weeks since the longest, darkest night of the Winter Solstice and if you pay attention, you will see that the daylight is growing stronger. Sunrise paints the sky in watercolor hues a little earlier every day and the night has to wait a few extra minutes before sunset. Our intentions for happiness can grow too. What did you leave behind in the darkness of the Winter Solstice? Are the shadows trying to creep back into your life? Imbolc is a time to reaffirm your commitment to yourself and your dreams.

When St. Brigid built her church in 500 AD in Kildare, Ireland, she lit a flame that was tended by the nuns and burned until the 1600’s. In 1993, the fire was relit and continues to burn today. But long before St. Brigid lit a flame to show her devotion to Christ, ancient Celts lit fires to honor the Goddess Brigid, hoping she would bless their herds.

In the darkness, when we are afraid the warmth of the sun will never return, we light fires to keep us warm and give us hope.

What fire will you light to honor yourself on February 1st?

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